Without Flexibility..I Don’t Know How Anyone Does It….

September 27, 2011

It was October 2002 when I first became a working mom.  Full time job.  Four month old baby at home.  Someone — other than my husband and me – who was helping with the care of our first child.

Fortunately, ever since that day, I have had the benefit of employers who champion flexibility in the workplace and the ability to work from home several days a week if I choose.  Now, that doesn’t mean I didn’t utilize day care, babysitters, and currently, after-care at my children’s school.  I have and I do.   And I’m actually a pretty big believer in the benefits of GOOD, group daycare, especially when the child care support system reinforces our Christian faith.

I know however, that as fortunate as I have been to take advantage of these benefits and have the money to pay for them, and am able to leave work to ensure I’m there for important milestones with my children…. there are many many women (and men!) in the working world who are ball and chained to desks, living the 9 to 5 grind with employers who neither take advantage of today’s technology to provide flexibility or (in my mind) worse, don’t trust their employees with the freedom to manage between work and home in creative ways.

I’m not sure where she’s going with this but I’m glad to know that the First Lady is helping to shine a light on the issue (as noted in this Politico story) by championing flexible work.. recognizing that in this Century, we need solutions that can accommodate the rigors of family life and thriving careers, both.  I hope she gives her staff the flexibility that she touts.  Because hers is a powerful voice….and with the “I Don’t Know How She Does It” movie in theatres, the timing is good!

Summer’s End

September 6, 2011

Hard to believe that today is that iconic day…the First Day of School.   Which also means another thing… Summer is over.  Here in the Klause household, we find ourselves somewhere between denial and anticipation of what’s to come this fall.   Even Graham, who is very excited to see his friends at school, when asked how this summer was for him on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst, 10 the best), answered without skipping a beat, “10 million.”

It is hard to let go.  So before I do, allow me to shine a visual light on some of our very best memories of Summer 2011.

First….the May bookend of Summer… Memorial Day on the Wolftrap Lawn waiting for the fireworks!

 

 

 

 

 

Another Memorial Day tradition.. planting our Summer Annuals!

Flower Master Little Green Thumb

 

 

 

 

 

 

We always celebrate Rob and Robin’s birthdays at the front end of Summer.

Birthday girl at Passionfish Grill

Daddy Birthday

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Once school was out it was Baseball and Swimming all the time!  Who would have guessed that Graham would love baseball so much and Mia would be the only swimmer on her team to make All Star times in two strokes – back and freestyle!

Swim Team Rocks

Baseball camp

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not without a little bit of “learning”  Graham and Mia jumped right into Science and Cooking class.  And they had a phenomenal babysitter Melissa, who reinforced creativity in the kitchen…

Cooking camp chefs

Tropical Island cafe place setting prepared for mom

Creative Cupcake fun with Melissa

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

July brought the Neff vacation to the Outer Banks…we hadn’t been there since Graham was a baby, so having all the kids together with Mom and Dad at a place where Tim and I grew up vacationing was very special.

Cousins and Best Friends

Birthday at the Beach

 

 

Crabbing in the Currituck Sound

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ah, the beloved Lake…for the third year we celebrated Graham’s birthday here (with his second cake this summer)… we fished, swam, ate, relaxed, had lots of cousin time….  Pure Heaven.

SeaDoo Ride

Birthday boy turns 9 at the Lake

Lunch on the Dock

 

Learning to sew

Hot shot

 

Fishermen

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And what would summer be without day trips…the National Zoo and Dutch Wonderland with Nana (where my Grandma used to take me each summer!)…..

ZOO

 

The Pretzel at DW

 

First Pony Ride

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mia and I even squeeked in the DC Idol concert (she loves her Scotty!) and a visit to the National History Museum in the same day…

Scared of TRex at the Natural History Museum

 

Idol oh yes we did

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

All good things may come to an end in one sense, but this Summer was, as Toby Keith likes to say “A big ‘en”.

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